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Sunday 17 October 2010

Soy Milk

It was the last time. He put the straw in the glass of soy milk. Slowly, leisurely, almost reverently, he took a sip. Another. Yet another. The cool sweet drink caressed his throat. Then there was none.

He got up from the table, took the glass, threw the straw, washed the glass with water and washing detergent, her words echoing in his ear, “Don’t just rinse it. You don’t get rid of germs just with hot water.” How many times had he nodded his head, smiled and just rinsed anyway. Unless she was watching.

She was not. It had been a long time since she was. It had been four months and three days.

He had come home to an individual-sized tetrapak of soy milk. Under it, a piece of paper torn from a spiral notebook. “I’m sorry.” That was all. He had wrapped the soy milk in the note, folding its corners just so, putting one-inch scotch tape in the middle and on both ends, like a carefully wrapped present. He had put it in the top right hand corner of the refrigerator. It had been the first thing his eyes saw every time he opened the refrigerator. Until now. He looked at the paper in his hand, the folds clear and sharp where they had embraced the box. The writing was still clear. Indelible as her absence.

Tuesday 6 November 2007

Twelve and counting

Twelve today. A magic number. A day to remember.

He is in the tween stage, neither man nor boy. Down on his lip, darker hair on his legs. His voice hasn't changed. No, not yet. He's not taller than me. No, not yet.

He will stoop to kiss me one day. His cheek will be rough with stubble. His "Hi, Mom" will be a deep rumble.

A baby, a feather on my shoulder. Then piggy back rides every morning, from bed to floor. Now I can no longer carry him. He wraps his arms around me once in a while and lifts me. He can. A few inches but he can. How long before his hug lifts me off my feet?

Son of mine, soon, too soon, I will have to let you go. You were never mine to begin with. You are God's. A wonderful gift for now.

Teach me Lord to hold him loosely in the palm of my hand, knowing that as he walks off my palm, He walks on to your much bigger one.

 

Tuesday 30 October 2007

And then there were 4

They were 5. Then there were 4. The 1 left 2 years ago. To eternity and beyond. The great divide. The Mystery. So many euphemisms for death. Might as well call it the Ultimate Dread.

A barn to be emptied. Half-used cans of paint. Old boxes. Moldy newspapers. Rusty nails. Dusty jam jars. The remains of a life. Sorted. Thrown. Burnt.

Dust to dust. Ashes to ashes. So apt.

"What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes." James 4:14

 

 

Wednesday 24 October 2007

Biking Demons

Yess!!!!! I'm on the seat... NOOOOO. I'm off again. What is with this foot! Why can't it put itself on the pedal? My other foot is fine; it's where it's supposed to be, my butt is on the seat, why can't my foot follow? AAARRRGGGHHH!

Learning to ride a bike at 49 is no easy matter. Somehow the parts of the body are just that; parts. They connect but do not coordinate. They move but not in sync. The head thinks too much. The eyes focus too hard on the ground. The hands too tense on the handle. The left leg too determined to push. The right leg too decided to play dead. The shoulders too hunched. The butt desperately wants to sit.

CRASH!!! No, it's not me. It's my sister bouncing off a coconut tree 20 years ago. That particular memory keeps replaying. My sister's fine. She knows how to ride a bike. It is I, who struggle.

It's too windy. My fingers are numb. My feet are cold. My nose is dripping. My eyes are leaking.  Wow! I'm on! A few centimeters, yessss! Ooops, I'm off. I'm on!!!! Yikes, Bike veers right and my foot does a duck paddle. Well, I didn't fall. At all!

So let's just call it a day, shall we? Hot chocolate here I come!!!!!

 

 

 

Tuesday 23 October 2007

Keys and other things

He couldn’t find his keys this morning. Rushing out the door, pulling on his jacket, murmuring through his hood, “I don’t know where they are.”

“What?” yelled his mom. And she followed him into the elevator, out into the street, with a litany not to all the Marys and saints combined, but to trust (which he will have to earn from now on), maturity (which he no longer had) and responsibility (which he was terribly lacking in). The litany stopped only to smile at the friend, who had come to pick him up.

“Whew! What a relief,” he thought. His mom chatted with the friend and asked him for a kiss before they drove off. He better not refuse, not if he didn’t want her mood to change. Vain hope, since her diatribe continued via sms and short rapid-fire questions through his cellphone.

Harp, harp, harp. Not the angel in heaven kind but the nagging drip drip kind. Thank God he was out of there.

Monday 3 September 2007

Hier et aujourd'hui

Il y eut hier, avec ses nouveautés, ses découvertes, ses émerveillements. Qu'en reste-t-il ? Furent-ils éphémères, comme la brume au petit matin ? Le passé comme passerelle vers l'avenir. Comment?
Ses questions lui étourdissaient la tête. Il n'en voulut plus.
"Arrête" dit-il à haute voix.
"Hmm ?" répondit-elle.
"Non, rien."
Elle le regarda, un sourcil levé, un petit sourire au coin des lèvres avant de plonger son regard dans son café avec deux sucres. Elle l'aimait fort et sucré. Elle tenait son bol des deux mains, comme pour les réchauffer. Elle ferma les yeux, inspirant fort et longuement la fumée du café, un nuage sur son visage.
"Mmmm, comme j'aime..." Elle ouvrit les yeux, le regarda et dit : "Comme j'tem !"
Elle avait toujours dit ça comme ça, en avalant les trois derniers mots, comme si elle n'arrivait pas à le dire assez vite.
Il la regarda et se tut.

Sunday 2 September 2007

Faux-fuyants

Il regarde le plafond, la chaise, un point dans le mur derrière son oreille, tout pour ne pas la regarder dans les yeux.
Elle baisse les yeux, sourit dans son verre et dit : “T'as peur ?”
Silence.
Elle sourit aux yeux fuyants: “De quoi ?”
“Je me sens nu.”
“Et alors ? C'est l'état purement naturel, non ? ou naturellement pur ?” avec une étincelle dans les yeux.
“Tu sais très bien ce que je veux dire. Ça me gêne.”
“J'aime quand ça te gêne.”
“Arrête.”
“Je ne fais que commencer,” sur un ton rieur.
“Je me sens vulnérable.”
“Aaah ! Sans défense. Apte à être blessé. Si je te dis que tu n'as rien à craindre, tu ne me croiras pas. L'expérience, la vie t'a appris autrement.”
Silence.
“J'aime tes silences peuplés de sens. Je vivrai tes silences au jour le jour, si tu le permets.”

Sunday 4 February 2007

How long ?

What does it take for a man to say, “I do” to a woman?

First, he looks. Then he smiles. If she smiles, he talks. If he makes her laugh, HE laughs, that gut-knowing laugh.

How long before he dares touch? How lightly? How smoothly?


***

What does it take for a man to say “I don’t” to that woman?

First, he looks. Then he smiles. If she smiles, he talks. If he makes her laugh, HE laughs, that gut-knowing laugh.

He goes home no longer to touch that woman, no longer to make her laugh.

He is now counting the seconds, the minutes, the hours, “How long before I dare touch? This other, smoother skin.”

Sunday 18 June 2006

It is a strange thing

It is a strange thing, breath. Unseen but heard; forgotten but vital, taken for granted except when I will be gasping for it, when not only my lungs, but my mouth will open wide, as though the size of the opening would somehow give me more of it, my torso arching, my limbs trembling with every desperate effort for one more, each time, just one more breath.

It is a strange thing, life. Seen, heard in all its hustle and bustle. Like a little whirlwind in the park. I see all the leaves, paper and debris churning around this hole in the middle. We are living holes, all a flurry to fill up the center, going round faster and faster, only to pick up more debris.

It is a strange thing, death. Seen but silent. A still waiting.

Monday 22 May 2006

Three deaths in two weeks

Three deaths in two weeks. No one close to me. Two were in their 90s, parents of acquaintances. One died last night, a man in his 60s, who wielded power, yet a prisoner of his own making. None of them chose to die nor wanted to. Even at 90, one still hopes for immortality.

Is death freedom? From the fatigue of old age, the despair of youth, the boredom of the Now?

We are victims either of glorifying death -like the Goths, using their alive bodies to showcase death, or what they imagine to be death, hence black clothes, lipstick, nails, skull rings- or of fleeing death, maintaining the semblance of youth at all costs, hence the creams that will stave off wrinkles, the plastic surgery on face and body that can mold a 50-year-old woman into a thirtysomething model.

Welcome to a world where “age” has become a four-letter word, where the ultimate compliment is “You do not look a day older than thirty.”

Death has lost its meaning and we have lost all balance. To heed today’s voices, death is either lover or tyrant. It is neither. It is a fact. It happens.

We are a funny people. How meticulously we plan for every trip. In this age of Easyjet, we book our flights months in advance, scour the Net for good hotel deals in dream places, yet for the Ultimate Journey, we make no plans, we make no provisions. It is a journey we do not want to take. Don’t let the Goths fool you that they love death and cannot wait to meet it. They fear death; that is why they make so much of it. As though living it, breathing it, being in-your-face about it would somehow make it tame.

Death is not tame. It simply is.

Sunday 21 May 2006

Leaning on empty

It was my turn.

The teacher’s footsteps came nearer, her hand holding out the white envelope. I took it, turned it round in my hand, stared at it, opened the flap.

Math: 70 in red, a failing grade. Once again. The rest was a blur. Only five points for a report card all in black; that card was still as distant as the moon.

The bell rang. It was the last day of school. Children flowed out of the classrooms like lava. I picked up my books, put them in my satchel and lifted it to my shoulder. I turned around, looked long at the blackboard, the polished desks, the worn-out chairs. It was time to go home.

Papa was waiting, in his chair. He held out his hand. I gave him the report card. “Humph!” a glance, a look of contempt and back to his newspaper. My report card on the floor by the coffee table.

I wanted to say, “I’m sorry. I tried. I did. I really did. My very best.” But I had been dismissed.

Willing myself to keep calm, I went out into the hall, up the stairs and into my room. I put down the satchel by my desk, pulled out the chair and laid my hot face against the cool wood. I closed my eyes. Wet cheeks against hard wood.

The maid knocked on the door, called,

“Kain na. Time to eat.”

I wasn’t hungry but if I didn’t show up I’d be in even greater trouble.

“Andiyan na. Coming.”

Down the stairs, careful not to make a sound. I slipped into my place and stared at the mound of rice and sautéed squid and vegetables on my plate. I took a spoonful, a sip of water, another spoonful, another sip of water...

Jeffrey, my brother was saying, “So, the teacher said, ‘And as usual first honor goes to Jeffrey Lim.’ The class clapped. I stood up, walked to the front of the classroom and received my certificate. I was so proud, Papa.”

“And so you should be, you are a Lim, after all.”

“Well done, Jeffrey, “Mama said.

Then quiet fell. I concentrated on the crunch of the snow peas grinding between my teeth, drowning out the silence.

Jeffrey went on, “My science project won. They’re sending me to Manila for the finals. Won’t it be great if I can bring the trophy home?”

“Wonderful, Jeffrey, wonderful,” Mama said.

“You will, my son, you will. A true Lim you are,” Papa said, glancing at me.

I only had one piece of squid left. I speared it with my fork and put it in my mouth. I seized my glass, swallowed, wiped my mouth and stood up.

The eyes followed me.

As I was climbing the stairs, my father said, “You’ll be going to your aunt’s in Canton. Since you don’t seem to appreciate the expensive education I’m giving you, you might just as well stay in the village and be useful to her in her old age.”

My step faltered. I looked at him but his attention had returned to Jeffrey. I went to my room, lay on the bed, closed my eyes.

My aunt’s village in China. A house with no running water. Dim, dank, dark. No toilet. An outhouse a block away. Fields fertilized with human excrement.

My aunt, an old woman at 55. Bitter, dried up, no dowry, no husband, no status, nothing.

I could not see myself with her. I refused to see it. Surely my father was bluffing?

I opened my door a crack. Jeffrey and Mama were rising from the table. Papa went to his study.

I closed my eyes, prayed to Jesus, Mary and Joseph, to Kwan-Yin, Bathala, Buddha, and Mohammed. “Go with me. Make him say yes, please.” I crept down the stairs and knocked softly on the study door. A loud and irritated “What is it?”

I opened the door, looked down at the floor. Papa turned his chair to face me.

“Well?”

I swallowed the rock in my throat. “I... I’m sorry, Papa. I try. I really do. I just don’t understand. I can’t help it.”

“I even pay someone to tutor you. No Lim is thick. Every Lim is sharp, good at figures, business-minded. When I look at you, I wonder where you come from. Go, I have no more to say.”

“Papa, please. Please don’t send me to Aunt’s. I don’t know anyone there. I can hardly speak Cantonese. She doesn’t even like me.”

“All the better. You won’t get in trouble. You know enough Cantonese to obey orders. That’s all you need.”

“Papa,” I stumbled over the words, “my English teacher said my essay was really good, that she had sent it to a school in California, to see if it could win. First prize is a year’s stay at that school. Papa, please, I should know by this week.”

I choked. I mustn’t cry. I mustn’t. He’ll despise me, think me weak. A girl, nothing but a stupid girl. I bit hard on my lip.

“Who told you you could enter this competition? It will only mean more money. If you win, Ha! If you win, who’s going to pay for the air fare, your living expenses? These people think I can spend money left and right. They don’t know how I sweated for it. No and that’s final. Now, get out. I have work to do.”

I turned and saw that Mama had been in the room all the time. She had not said a word. She looked at me and turned away.

My knuckles shone white against the banister as I climbed the stairs. My room. My bed. I lay on it, careful not to disturb the bedspread. I wrapped my arms around my shoulders and brought my knees up to my chest. Cold and dry-eyed.

There was a knock.

The maid said, “Aalis na raw kayo.” Time to go.

The nightly outing to the family restaurant.

Papa owned a restaurant on the top floor of the tallest building in town. He was proud of the Golden Dragon. He had built it from scratch, starting as a bus boy in one of the cheap restaurants in Davao, moving up to kitchen help, doing everything from chopping vegetables to scouring blackened pots and pans, until he had saved enough to start his own.

He liked to go to the Golden Dragon every night. We all had to go and see how well the restaurant was doing. Once he saw the full tables, he went to the office to check on messages. Jeffrey followed. Mama inspected the huge pantry and made a list of the things to be ordered from Hong Kong. I slid open the glass door and stepped out onto the narrow balcony. A concrete ledge, chest high, ran along the whole roof. I wanted out of the freezing restaurant, the clanging and banging of pots and pans, the shouts of “Table 3’s bird’s nest soup. Dalian nyo. Hurry up!” I sat on the ledge, my feet dangling. It was hot and humid after the sterile cold of the air-conditioners but I liked the clammy feeling. I looked up at the black sky, no stars - too much neon blinking. In front of me, the sparkling floor-to-ceiling windows of the Golden Dragon and the waiters’ silent dance: the red and black uniforms gliding, weaving, turning, the arms going up, out, down, laying mounds of fried rice, sweet and sour pork, steamed fish on the table, then down, out and up again and into the kitchen. Papa, ready to go, waiting, frowning, seeing me at last.

It was my turn.

I looked at him, long and hard, until the ledge grazed the back of my knees as I leaned on empty.

The monkey

I was eight when the monkey came. I rushed home from school, dying to get out of my blue, itchy, starched uniform. Home was above the store. Taking the steps two at a time, I heard the violent clanging of chains, a loud screech; and the monkey lunged at me, bared teeth inches from my face. Whoosh as his hand tried to grab me. I cringed and scraped the wall with my nails.

“Mama!” I screamed. The cashier came running, grabbed hold of the chain, yanked the monkey back on to its perch and said over the loud screeching, “Go, Jingjing, go. He can’t reach you. He’s your mother’s new pet.”

I choked. Mama hadn’t told me I would be coming home to a monkey on the stairs.

I was afraid. I refused to go up or down unless someone went with me and when the store was teeming with customers I had to wait. The chain was just a hand’s breath short of reaching me and clutching a salesgirl’s hand, I hugged the far wall as my feet raced against each other on the stairs. I could feel Mama’s eyes on me every time.

Mama had had pets before: guard dogs she talked to early in the morning before starting work, goats that gave fresh milk, a chicken that ended up in the family pot. But never a monkey.

I liked going down to the store after supper and sitting across from Mama at the huge desk strewn with papers, mountains that dwindled into hills until they ended up in out-trays, in-trays and to-be-done trays. I played quietly, watching Mama often.

She was bent over the desk, the lamp throwing a bright white light on pink slips, yellow invoices and blue inventory sheets. Her glasses perched on the edge of her nose, the right index finger thrusting the glasses back up as they slipped yet again, wisps of greying hair falling over her forehead, fingers flying on the black abacus.

One night I went downstairs to be with Mama as usual. I grasped the maid’s hand, steeling myself for the screech, the jangling, the whoosh but ... silence. I looked up. No monkey! Running into the store, I stopped and saw the monkey on a new perch, my mother’s right shoulder. It raised its head slowly and fixed me with its gaze, gleaming brown eyes, shiny like marbles. The lips opened wide, yellow teeth, a quiet menacing grin. Its hands rifled through Mama’s hair, picking, choosing, eating. I wondered what. She kept on working, the monkey silently resting one hand on her head as he shifted from one shoulder to the other. Finally, he sat still, a hand on her shoulder, the other on the nape of her neck. I backed away. Mama looked up. A puzzled and irritated “What’s wrong with you?”

I pointed to the monkey.

“Stop it, Jingjing. How many times do I have to tell you he’s harmless? He’s just a baby.”

She gave a quick pat on the hand-foot on her shoulder and then back to her papers. I turned and silently went up the stairs, putting my foot squarely on the middle of each step.

The next night I stayed in my room after supper, and the next night and the next...

A few days later, I was clinging to the cashier’s hand, heart thudding.

“Amalia, go back to the cash register. From now on, Jingjing will go up and down the stairs by herself.”

I stared at Mama and felt cold. I looked up and saw the monkey crouched, ready to spring.

“Ma, please. I...”

“No!” steel in the voice, “you ....are.... going.... to... go... alone... NOW!”

I looked up at Amalia; she stared at the cash register.

I took a step, then felt the warm trickle between my legs. My skirt was wet, my socks, my shoes. I heard Mama’s chair scrape backwards, hit the wall, the swoosh swoosh of the chair turning. She grabbed my arm and dragged me to the first step, beneath the eyes gleaming, shiny like marbles.

The hissed “Go” and she shoved me up the stairs. I stumbled and hit my shin against the first step, my face pressed against the skirt, the stench of urine overpowering. I gagged, pushed myself up and ran up to the bathroom.

The next day, Amalia saw me standing at the top of the stairs and quietly, she came, held my hand and led me downstairs. The monkey was asleep.

Coming home from school, I memorized the cracks on the cement floor as each step brought me closer to the stairs. I took a deep breath. Then I saw. The marks where the nails had been for the perch. Then I heard. The silence.

I rushed back towards Mama, hair flying, arms reaching, wet eyes unseeing. My face on her neck, at last. I looked up. Her eyes were gleaming, shiny like marbles.

The austerity drive

I had been standing at the school gate for two hours, the rain pelting down, as typhoon Waling howled over Manila. Gloria the Gossip had asked for a ride and I was glad not to be alone in the dark, in the rain, in the cold.

Max, the driver, had called in sick so my brother Jim was supposed to have picked me up at 5:00 but it was already 7:00 and still no Jim. At last Gloria and I heard a car, its headlights blinding. We rushed to meet it, tumbling in, I in front, Gloria at the back. Even before we had slammed the door shut, the car was backing up, gears screaming. We bounced into a pothole and I was thrown against Jim.

“Ano ka ba? What’s wrong with you? You forget all about me and then drive like a madman!”

I swallowed when I brushed the wet hair out of my eyes and saw that it wasn’t Jim but Papa.

“You were supposed to be at Attorney Lopez’s office waiting for me. I told Jim you had to be there by 5:30. Just wait till I get you home...”

“Papa, Jim didn’t...”

“Don’t you talk back to me.”

“But Papa...”

The eyes nailed my lips shut.

The litany started. “Useless stupid waste...”

Gloria’s house at last. A whispered “Thank you” and she was gone. I would be Gloria’s hot off-the-press item for the next few days.

Home, a dark two-storey house at the end of a lane. No lights unless absolutely necessary. We were on an austerity drive, Marcos’s idea of saving energy. I thought Marcos had got the idea from Papa.

As I headed upstairs, Papa grabbed my arm, whirling me around.

“Where do you think you’re going? I haven’t finished with you yet.”

I felt the knuckles on my cheek as my hair flew at the same angle as the slap.

“Don’t talk back. Don’t waste my time again.”

A nod, a word, a shake of the head and my hair might fly the other way, so I did not move.

“Get out.”

I concentrated on the parquet design until I reached the bathroom. I sat on the cold floor until my hands were steady enough to undo the buttons on the blouse of my uniform: I stood up and tugged at my skirt, the zip leaving red teeth marks on my skin. Pressing the toe of one shoe to the heel of the other, the shoes came off. I turned on the taps and stepped under the shower in my white socks. I raised my face to the hot stream. The water tasted salty.

Into pajamas then dinner to be swallowed. Jim and Papa were already eating. They continued talking as I slid the chair out.

“The conference speaker had great ideas about exporting prawns to Japan. The time flew, Pa. Sorry you had to pick her up.”

I wished Max would be well enough to drive the next day.

The Trick

The breeze stirred restless fingers in my hair and molded the loose cotton dress to my scrawny eleven-year-old frame. I stood very still and pressed my ear to the wall.

“It’s white blood, silly!” Manding said.

“Yuk! It smells awful!” Lisa said.

“That’s how it is a few days before you get the real thing.”

“And why do my breasts hurt so? Lito complains because I won’t let him touch them.”

“It’s all part of it. Don’t you know anything? Listen, there’s a trick to…. What was that?”

I had leaned against an empty gasoline can that was against the wall, sending it crashing to the floor. I ran behind a coconut tree and hid.

Manding opened the door and peered out. Seeing no one, she shrugged and went back in.

It wasn’t the first time I had eavesdropped on their conversation. Manding and Lisa worked in our hardware store. My parents and I lived on top and the salesgirls lived in a nipa hut at the back. A thatched roof and woven fronds for walls, a hut made for easy eavesdropping. I had not meant to go on doing it. It had started out as a game, something naughty that I could get away with, but as new worlds unfolded through the pictures they painted, each night I stole out to listen. It became my bedtime story.

Every night I waited for the next episode. They went on about their families, the money they had to send home every month to help out, the latest movie; tricks for having healthy hair. Boring! I hopefully glued my ear to the wall, frantically but quietly shooing away the mosquitoes that left little red bumps on my skin.

Mama never knew anything of these escapades. She always wondered about the mosquito bites on my arms and legs every morning. She would take out “White Flower oil” and dab it on all the bites, telling me each time not to scratch. I can still feel the cool sting of the oil, its eucalyptus scent overpowering. That was my first perfume.

On a Sunday afternoon, with the store closed and my homework done, I hung around the kitchen and saw Manding headed for the communal bathroom.

“Manding, wait! Me, too!” I rushed upstairs to get a towel and clean T-shirt and shorts.

When I got to the bathroom, Manding was putting her clean clothes on a shelf on the wall. She reached for mine and put them beside her pile. Under the shelf, on nails, hung a row of malongs, long, wide pieces of cloth in bright reds, blues, greens and yellows the girls used to wrap around themselves when bathing.

The bathroom was small with cement walls and floors, gutters running around the four walls to serve as a drain, a naked bulb hanging from the ceiling. The faucet dripped into a plastic pail in one corner, a tabo, a plastic dipper, floating on top of the water.

I liked Manding best. She had thick, black, shoulder-length hair, not like my chopped bowl-cut; big brown eyes, not chinky like mine; lashes to die for, none of my short stubs and lips like the rose on the calendar in Mama’s office.

She unzipped her dress, turned her back to me, slid the sleeves down and using her chin to hold the dress against her body, she unhooked her bra. Reaching for her red malong, she wrapped it around her, tying a knot in front. The dress and bra fell to the floor. She picked them up and put them in a basin of soapy water to soak. I stripped to my panties and put my T-shirt and shorts in, too. She squatted, got the tabo, filled it with water from the pail and poured it on her hair. She shampooed and rinsed then massaged coconut milk into her scalp with brisk, circular motions, carefully working it through each strand of hair. Wringing out the excess milk, she twirled the thick wet strand into a knot on her head.

Laughing, taking my hands out of my hair, she said, “Jingjing, not just the hair, silly; the scalp, go down deep and rub. Here, let me.”

“But I was following every step!”

“Yeah, sure.”

Her fingers moved lightly, firmly, expertly. I closed my eyes in delight, feeling every pull, my scalp warm, tingling.

“Now, let the coconut milk do its work.” She scooped water from the pail and splashed my body and hers. She stood up, and under the malong, the shruup shruup of the soap under her arms and between her legs. Wet pink panties came out from under the cloth and landed on the dress and bra in the basin. She rinsed the soap and gave it to me. My nylon panties were wet and I soaped all over and around the panties, took them off and put them in the basin together with our other clothes.

“Watch out! Tidal wave!” as she squeezed her palm against the faucet, spraying me with a wall of water.

“Manding! Sige ka!” I grabbed the tabo and hurled water at her, slipping and sliding on the cement floor.

Shrieks and laughter until she yelled, “Time out!” We were laughing so hard; I was hiccupping from the water I had swallowed; she had wet straggly strands over her eyes.

“Hey, let’s get down to business now, Jingjing.”

She reached for a small pumice stone and vigorously scrubbed her legs and arms with it, taking longer at the elbows and knees. I wrinkled my nose at her. She gave me a knowing smile as I skipped the stone and started rinsing. I tossed the tabo to her and as she rinsed I watched the water molding the malong to the high curve of her breasts, the small waist, the hips flaring out. Now I knew what the boys at school meant by Coca-Cola body.

“Hey! Time to wash the clothes!” She tossed the last tabo full at me. When the clothes were wrung out, she put them in the basin. We got dressed and came out smelling of coconut oil and Lifebuoy. Manding balanced the basin of clean clothes on her hip and sauntered out to the backyard to hang up our clothes. I trailed along, skipping and chatting.

The cook banged the aluminum plate and we rushed back for supper. The salesgirls always ate together. Sitting across from each other on two wooden benches around a wooden rectangular table, they gossiped, teased and laughed all throughout the meal. Their food was simple: fried fish, sautéed vegetables and rice; sardines with noodles; mongo bean stew with rice. Spoon and fork often gave way to fingers. Using thumb and forefinger to scoop some fish, adding it to the rice on their plates, they nimbly squashed the mixture to a lump and put it into their mouths.

We ate at a separate table, my mother, father and I. My father, worried about the price of copra, frowned at his meal. My mother, thinking of the payroll, dispatched her food. And I, little Miss Perfect, savored every mouthful.

The salesgirls chattered happily. I slipped out of my chair and joined them. I squeezed in between two girls and a hand was always ready to scoop some fish and rice into my mouth. I enjoyed watching their faces; mouths smiling, eyebrows arching, eyes crinkling with laughter.

Clanging their aluminum plates, they got up, gathered the dishes and did the washing up. I went up to my room, washed and put on my pajamas and said good night to Papa, who was usually in bed reading the newspaper. Then I went downstairs to say good night to Mama, who was usually working on accounts.

Now I was free. No one to bother me. I stole out through the door and crept to my usual hiding place.

“So he told me to meet him next Thursday in town,” Manding said.

“How’ll you get off work?” Lisa asked.

“I’ll just say I have to go back to the province, that my mother’s sick.”

“They’ll never believe you. Besides, it takes too long to get to your place. How can you be back the next day?”

“I’ll ask for two days.”

What? That’s two days off your paycheck. Is this guy really worth it?”

“You bet.”

“How did you meet him?”

“Oh, the usual, you know.”

“No, I don’t. So tell.”

“I promised I wouldn’t. So, good night.”

Lisa pestered Manding, asking for more details, asking for every detail, was he tall or short, dark or fair, fat or thin. Manding baited Lisa, leading her on, only to leave her no better off than when she started. After a few more tries, Lisa gave up, very disappointed. So was I.

It was Thursday. I heard Manding ask for two days’ leave. Mama was skeptical. She’d heard it all before: the mother was sick, then later in the year the father, then the sister, then the brother…. One salesgirl went through every single member of her family until my mother said sarcastically, “Who is it this time? The water buffalo?” But she always ended up letting them go.

Papa was away on business, as usual. He came and went as he pleased. Mama packed for him. If I was awake before he left, he would run his fingers down my cheek.

I was in awe of my father. His word was law. I envied him. I was afraid of him. Everybody was afraid of him. He reduced a salesgirl to tears for selling a spare part at the old price. He yelled at Mama for selling copra at the wrong time. He bawled me out for spilling soy sauce. Yet he would dance with me, teach me the tango, tell me jokes when the mood took him. I loved him.

I was glad Papa was away. Mama would let me go to town on my own. I knew my way around.

I told Mama I wanted to buy Nancy Drew’s latest mystery. She gave me money for the jeepney fare and a book or two. I went to the girls’ hut; Manding was packing. I asked, “Are you going into town? Taking a jeepney? Can I come?”

Smiling, she said, “Whoa, one question at a time. Yes to all three, but I’ll be busy. I have to buy pasalubong.”

I understood. Nobody ever went home empty-handed.

I said, “I’m going to buy a book, maybe two if I have enough money. We can go together.”

She said, “I don’t know about that. I might take a while choosing my pasalubong and I really…”

I cut her off, “Oh, I won’t shop with you. I just want to go into town with someone.”

She sighed, ruffled my hair and said, “OK.”

She finished packing and we left. I put my hand in hers. I looked up at her and told her how pretty she was. Her short-sleeved dress had tiny pink flowers all over it, a scooped neckline that showed off her long, smooth neck, the hem ending a couple of inches above the knee. The folds played hide and seek with her body. She smelt of crushed roses.

We hailed a jeepney and got in. We were squeezed tight against the other passengers. The music was blaring. I noticed some of the men glancing at Manding when she wasn’t looking. After a while, she yelled “Para!” and we got off. It was the center of town, where the banks, stores and hotels were. She took me straight to the bookstore, dropped my hand and hurriedly said, “Here you are. Gotta go now.”

I watched her from behind a revolving bookrack. I gave her a head start. I crossed the street. I blended in with a family with four kids; I hid behind a man carrying a huge sack of rice; I hid behind a post. But I needn’t have worried. Manding’s feet were flying, her long black hair swinging, her whole body straining. She was tinglingly alive. She stopped at the Las Islas Filipinas Hotel. My heart beat faster. “Wow! They saved up for this.”

She took a quick look at her reflection in one of the glass windows. She flicked her hair back, turned around to check her dress and straightened up. She took a deep breath and pushed open one of the swinging glass doors. I sprinted across the street, raced to the door, pressed my nose to the glass. The doorman had just been called away. How lucky, just like a Nancy Drew story.

Manding was crossing the lobby. A tall, good-looking man was walking towards her, smiling. He took her hand briefly, turned around and started walking to the elevator. She followed. Before the elevator doors closed, I saw him run his fingers down her cheek.

The doorman got back just then and said, “Hoy, alis diyan. Scram, kid”

I backed away, bumping into an old lady. I ran to the jeepney stop, elbows shoving at anything and anybody, seeing the fingers down the cheek, down the cheek, down…

I was off the jeepney before it came to a stop. Mama looked up from the abacus, surprised, “Hey, back so soon? Where’s your Nancy Drew?”

“I hate Nancy Drew!”

Sharks fin soup

He looked at the chandelier flashing light, the bouquet splashing color and the table gleaming white. Then he saw her.

She was young, petite, delicate. She had come from Hong Kong to her godmother’s in Baguio to get well. The mountain air of the summer capital of the Philippines was supposed to do wonders for weak lungs, the brochure said. She was the cashier at the Pearl River Restaurant, a congee and noodle place that did brisk business from 6 in the morning till 10 at night.

He was one of the cooks, standing over steaming vats of chicken or beef broth, dumping coils of noodles in boiling water, shaking them out quickly into bowls, ladling dumplings or beef brisket over the noodles, pouring in hot broth and sprinkling chopped scallions on top and then the loud, “Table 4’s order!” He moved quickly, smoothly, gracefully.

They stole glances at each other. Sometimes their eyes met; she looked down; he looked away. The silent courtship did not go unnoticed. Teasing was rampant in the kitchen and in the girls’ back room.

He heard of a small restaurant that was going bankrupt. He shook out his nicest shirt, took the plastic bag off his Sunday pants, chose the only pair of socks with no holes, spit-shined his black shoes and got dressed. He asked for the afternoon off, went to town to see Mr. Ho, a third cousin of his mother’s brother in the old country. Mr. Ho owned a botica, sold drugs with or without prescription over the counter, and was doing quite well for himself.

He came out with a loan at a reasonable interest

He went back to the restaurant and when business slowed in the afternoon, he talked to the boss, then went to the cashier and asked her to go for a walk in Burnham Park. She raised her head inquiringly at the boss, who said, “I think you need a break. “ They left to a hoot of “Uy may date sila!” and the laughing and teasing of everyone in the restaurant.

They walked side by side, not looking, not touching, not talking.

They sat on the bench and, staring out at the man-made lake with hired boats toing and froing he said, “I have enough to start my own restaurant. It could be yours too, if you like.”

She borrowed a red cheongsam and he bought a second-hand suit. They parted with 50 pesos for a wedding portrait and 25 pesos for a sepia-colored picture of the waiters and the cooks and the boss beaming at a long table around the shy, smiling couple.

The restaurant was on the corner of Rizal and de los Santos Sts. A small room with a cement floor, four round tables and a counter. They lived in the back room with only a bed and a cabinet. They cooked everything in a tiny kitchen, aluminum plates piled high with chopped up vegetables and meat covering every surface. They served humba, pig-knuckles stewed in soy sauce; pansit, stir-fried noodles; lumpia, spring rolls; siopao, a bun filled with pork or chicken - the poor man’s staple.

He was cook and waiter, balancing loaded plates on arms and hands, smiling at her as he passed. She was busboy, waitress and cashier, following him with her eyes as he rushed in and out of the kitchen. Their days were long and happy; their nights short but promising.

Word got around. “Cheap, good, tasty.”

Now, years later, in the only high rise in town, word still gets around “Delicious, exclusive, expensive.”

They serve Peking duck now, and abalone hot pot, and sharks fin soup.

Running feet, high-pitched voices, “Kongkong”, Grandfather, and little bodies hurtling at his knees. He smiles, looks down and pats their heads. Then sons, daughters, sons-in-law, and daughters-in-law, sit at the table. It is his 69th birthday, a must-celebrate, must spend-birthday to bribe the spirits to grant him yet another year of life. Everyone is in red, the color of happiness. He raises his glass for a toast and then he sees her. Who is that withered old woman at the other end of the table?

Angels weep at noon

“Mommy, mommy, story!”

I blink and tear my eyes from the rivulets running down the windowpane.

“Sorry, darling. Once upon a time...”

It was cold and wet, drumming, tearing wet. Typical mid-July typhoon in Manila. Rain falling with a vengeance, thick heavy sheets slashing every tree, jeepney and building. I held my shoes in one hand, the other bunching up my skirt to keep it out of the swirling water around my knees. I touched the sidewalk with my toes, feeling for open manholes, and made sure of firm cement before putting my foot down.

Men tied the corners of their handkerchiefs around their heads, rolled up their pants and bent their heads to the wind. Students from the nearby university hugged their books and sloshed from one store awning to another. Street vendors hurriedly pushed their wooden carts loaded with boiled peanuts, fried banana rolls, barbecued chicken feet out of the rain, wiping the drops off their hair, arms and hands with a grimy face towel once they had found shelter. Three girls held hands, counted 1-2-3 after each step and laughed with their faces to the sky. Cars and jeepneys stalled, half-drowned on Taft Avenue. Teenage boys pushed what cars still ran across the flooded street and the drivers were only too happy to part with a few pesos to be able to go on their way. Children frolicked in the rain, throwing empty plastic bags, watching them ballooning up, then sinking, a glimmer of white or pink or blue or yellow.

“Carla!”

I turned my head and the window of a blue Mitsubishi Pajero slid down.

“Get in. I’ll take you home,” Peter Beresford yelled through the window. He was an American consultant, spending three months setting up the computer accounting program for the bank. We worked together, deciding what information he needed. He was into his second week.

He leaned over and opened the passenger door.

I clambered in, dropped the shoes and pulled the skirt over my knees.

“Thanks. I live quite a ways from here though, in Makati. If you can drop me off somewhere along EDSA, I can take a jeepney from there. It’s only this bit that gets flooded.”

“I live in Makati, too. Just tell me where to turn from EDSA.”

He turned on the CD player and I heard the first yearning notes of a trumpet.

My shoulder-length hair was plastered to my scalp and my white blouse was soaked.

“Here, my gym bag’s in the back seat. Grab the towel and wrap it around you. Sorry, I can’t turn off the air-conditioning; the windshield will fog up.”

“Thanks.”

I leaned over, unzipped the bag and took out a blue towel. It smelt of Eau Sauvage.

I rubbed my hair with the towel and said, “Stardust. Wynton Marsalis. My favorite.” I looked at the CD jacket. “I love this album. But I stopped buying after this one. I don’t like his new stuff.”

“Why not? Artists evolve. They take us on to new things.”

“That’s just the problem. Their single makes it to the top, they make an album, then they decide to experiment. We like what we’ve got. So, stick with it.”

“Carla, we’d still be lighting lamps if we followed your logic.”

“That’s what I mean. We weren’t happy with lighting lamps, so we moved on to electricity but then we progressed, if you can call it that, to nuclear energy. Why can’t we leave well enough alone?”

“Other people like Wynton’s sound now.”

“Who? You? “

“What’s that supposed to mean?” He turned and raised an eyebrow at me.

“Hey!” I stuck my hands out in front of me, shrugged and smiled.

He concentrated on the road. I looked at his fingers on the steering wheel, long and tapered, almost like a woman’s. His black hair curled around his small ears, and the round gold-rimmed glasses perched on a nose any Filipino would have given his soul for. His chin was square, his lips full.

The girls at the bank followed him with their eyes, whispered about him during coffee breaks and grabbed every opportunity to take a fax, memo or letter to his desk.

“Ang guapo ni Mr. Blue eyes! Ang suerte mo, Carla.”

Everyone envied me working with him. He and I had got along from the start.

“Turn right here. Then at Berting’s Sari-Sari Store turn left.”

“What’s a sari-sari store anyway?”

“It’s where you can buy a cup of soy sauce, a stick of Marlboro, a packet of shampoo, a pencil, three beers, whatever. Handy. Nothing like that in the States.”

“No, nothing like that.”

The rain was thudding on the roof. I could hardly hear the trumpet.

“It rains like this till August?”

“September, sometimes October.”

He shook his head. “Such violent extremes, such lightning changes. Sun, then all of a sudden, pouring rain. I’ve never seen anything like it. This must have been the kind of rain God sent on Noah.”

“But doesn’t it make you grateful for rainbows? And what I love most is when the sun shines while it’s still raining. My mom used to call me to the window and say, ‘See, Carla. Angels weeping.’”

“But angels don’t cry, do they? They just play harps on their clouds or something, right?”

We looked at each other and burst out laughing.

“Here we are,” I said through the laughter, “turn right at the Shell station and a few more blocks and the black gate, that’s it. Thanks, Peter. See you tomorrow. I’ll wash the towel and get it back to you.”

“No, I’ll take care of it.”

I rummaged in my bag for my keys and waved good-bye. Home at last. It was small but it was mine. Everything was wood and rattan and batik. I locked the door and looked through my CDs.

“Play it again, Wynton.”

I slow-danced to the bathroom and followed Stardust in my head while I showered and when I stepped out and could finally hear, I was just behind him a few bars. Not bad. One day, I’ll get it right.

The next day the sun shone brilliant; angels cried; then rain pummeled us at dusk.

Peter and I worked until six, then he said, “Come on, I’ll drop you off.”

He put Stardust on again, winking. “For the diehards.”

“Thanks,” I said sarcastically.

One night I said, “Want to come in? I’ve only got leftovers.”

He grinned and parked the car.

“Coke? Beer? Gin and tonic? I make a mean one.”

“OK then, let’s try it.”

He sipped and said, “Aaah! That hits it just right.”

“May I?” as he stretched his long legs and leaned back on the couch.

“Sure.”

“You live alone? Not even a maid? That’s unusual for here, isn’t it?”

“Yes. My parents raised hell about me wanting my own place, but once I earned enough, what could they do? And I don’t need a maid. Someone does the housework twice a week and someone else comes and cooks over the weekend, enough dishes for the week. I just take what I need from the freezer. So, ready to try some home-made Filipino food?”

I smiled and stepped over his legs. I got the adobo and the guinisang upo from the fridge and put them in the microwave. I put the leftover rice in the steamer and turned the stove on.

He stood up. “Set the table?”

“Spoons and forks right hand drawer. Glasses up there.” I pointed with my lips.

He laughed. “Is that a Filipino thing? I get directions with a jerk of the head, a moue. People greet me by raising their eyebrows.”

“Hey, who needs words?” I jerked my head for him to sit. He laughed again and pulled out a chair.

We ate and did not talk. I liked that.

It became a regular thing. Drive and dinner. And Wynton’s trumpet.

“Carla, favor. I need a new suit. Can you help me pick one out? Then we can have Italian at my place afterwards.”

“You can cook?”

“Man of many talents. Try me,” and he gave me a mock bow.

We headed off to Makati and the boutiques. The first one didn’t have his size; the second one was too conservative; the third one had a grey silk Armani. He went to the fitting room. “Carla, come see!”

I pushed open the black velvet curtain that led to the fitting room and saw myself walking towards him in the mirror. The room shrank to two pairs of eyes in the glass.

Then softly, “Perfect match, don’t you think?”

I was drowning in blue.

“Is it OK, sir?” The salesgirl called from behind the curtain.

Holding my gaze, he said, “Just what I’ve been looking for.”

He paid and we ran to the car. It was raining again. He unlocked the door and helped me in. He got in, turned the key in the ignition and looked at me. I stared straight ahead. He sighed and put the car into gear.

He lived in one of the new expensive condominiums. His flat was on the 15th floor, marble floors, leather couch, lamps on tables. Browns and deep oranges. Behind me, I heard ice clinking into glass. Felt eyes warm on my back. Too warm. I grabbed my bag from the couch and turned, back to the door, to where I had come from.

“Carla, please.” He was still. Everything was still. “Stay,” a whisper.

I had not looked at him since the eyes in the mirror.

I held my shoulder bag tight against my side, my other arm across my chest, holding on to the strap.

“I make a mean gin and tonic.”

I let go of the strap and the bag fell. I huddled on the edge of the couch, feet, hands and knees pressed together, staring at the mud on the toe of my right shoe. The sibilant hiss of a CD; soft yearning notes. He placed his hands on my rigid shoulders and gently pushed them back against the soft leather. I closed my eyes and his fingers combed my hair. A long time. Then I felt his weight next to me. He placed my hand in the palm of his and a finger caressed the base of my wrist to the tip of each finger. I opened my eyes.

“Peter...”

“Sssh. I know. I’ll be gentle.”

And he was, infinitely so.

In the shower, I told him to sing Stardust in his head and we would see who could follow Wynton closest.

“Shoot! I was in daa”, humming high, “and he was already in daaaa,” humming low. “Will I ever get it right?” I looked up. “And you?”

He shook his head, ruffled my hair and said, “Child and woman, and all mine.”

I felt the heat on my cheeks, remembering. I buried my face in the towel.

He laughed and hugged me.

The days were too long, the nights too short. Time was running out. A week more. Then the day came. His flight was at noon.

I stared at the clock in my living room. As the hands marched to 12, I looked out the window. The angels were at it again.

“...and they lived happily ever after.”

She snuggles down contentedly, yawning.

I smile and kiss her blue eyes shut.

Mamasan

I squint my eyes and lean hard against the steering wheel. HONK! Oops! I draw back and sigh. Snow, snow, snow, thick and fast.

I love snow cloaking every fir and pine around the chalet, sparkling diamonds in the sun and especially when I’m huddled inside with a fire roaring and a good book in the huge mamasan, half lying, half sitting on a huge round cushion cradled in wicker. I push and stretch and burrow and the cushion makes a niche for me.

I fell on the chalet in the summer, walking lost in the mountains of Saint-Cergue. A path, trees and then there it was. All wood, all geraniums, all Swiss. At the local grocery store, five kilometers away, I got the number and booked the chalet for the winter.

The only thing I dragged from Geneva was the mamasan. It blocks the whole fireplace and no longer seems incongruous amidst the pine and old skis on the wall, the fondue set with its cows and edelweiss on the shelf and the 1 déci glasses sporting the Vaud coat of arms in the buffet.

I locked up my apartment, left plants and keys with my spinster neighbor. It felt strange at first, this picking up and going, no longer waiting, sitting, staying.

Tick tock tick tock, my heart had counted each second, each minute, each hour, each day. Staring out the window in the rocking chair, dawn seeing pink, then orange, then fire on the white mountain peaks. Then dusk kissing them red and purple. The same colors on the wall above the bed, above the white head on the pillow. His hair had not been as white as the starched white pillowcase. He had always liked to sleep on starched white things. I could never be bothered. Till now.

He had slept. He had often slept. Up, down, up, down the sheet covering him had gone and my heart had fluttered to its silent beat.

I hear the key in the lock. I run and hide in the closet, push the coats in front of me. I hear his voice, “Where are you? Come out, come out, wherever you are!”…. Steps coming nearer. I hold my breath, push the closet door open and hit his nose: his eyes crinkling, his nose bleeding, his mouth laughing. I fall into his arms laughing. His hair had been black then.

That hair wild in the air, mine flipping against my face, WHEEE, as we go down the roller coaster and his eyes rolling wide, “I’M GONNA THROW UP!!!”

That hair plastered to his skull, wet and dripping. “Dive, you can do it!” I yell.

He flies in a perfect arc and lands flat on his chest. The wave of water in my open laughing mouth. We come up sputtering.

Sputtering, yes, he had been sputtering since.

One day the sheet above his chest moved no more.

I sat in my rocking chair and stared out into my mountain-of-many-colors.

The day came, the day for turning the house from holding two to one and as closets and drawers emptied, as tears no longer came, one last thing remained. The attic. And there it was, the mamasan, its round emptiness waiting to enfold me. It has been in front of the fireplace since.

And so it is now, three kilometers away in my little chalet, waiting. I squint in the snow, drive up the steep mountain and turn. The tires skid on ice, I brake and the car dances and flies.

I wake. Mmmm. Warm. I struggle to open my eyes. Sigh. I am in my mamasan after all, a mamasan of snow.